Nantsi inguqulelo emfutshane: mhlawumbi ikhithi ilungile, nomntwana wakho ulungile. Uninzi lweekhithi zerobhotiki nezokubhala ikhowudi zakhelwe kwiseti emiselweyo yeeprojekthi ezikhokelweyo, kwaye umdla womntwana udla ngokuphela kanye apho imiyalelo iphela khona. Ingxaki ayifane ibe kukungakwazi ukugxila ixesha elide. Kukuba ikhithi iyekile ukunika umntwana wakho indawo aya kuyo.

Ukuba oku kwenzeke ngeekhithi ezimbini okanye ezintathu zilandelelana, leyo yipatheni efanele ifundwe ngendlela echanekileyo. Idla ngokwalatha indlela iikhithi eziyilwa ngayo nendlela esizibeka ngayo ekhaya, ingabi siphene esikumntwana.

Iikhithi zithengisa ubutsha, hayi inkqubela

Ukwakha okukhokelweyo kwekhithi yiyo yonke imveliso. Uvula ibhokisi, ulandele incwadana, uze uthi xa iprojekthi yokugqibela igqityiwe ibhokisi ibe ngumphanda wamacandelo ongenanyathelo licacileyo elilandelayo. Ubutsha buphela ngokukhawuleza. Umntwana obevuya kakhulu xa evula ibhokisi unokuphelelwa ngumdla kwiiveki ezimbini, kwaye oko kuqhelekile kwaye kuyalindeleka, ingabi ngumqondiso wesilumkiso.

Iikhithi ezimbamba umntwana zezo zikhokelela ndawo ithile: indlela ecacileyo esuka ekukopeni umzekelo iye ekwakheni into eyeyakhe. Loo nto ngumbuzo wekharikhulam ngokwenene, ingabi ngumbuzo wehardware. Isilawuli esifana nebhodi ye-sheenbot infinity sihlala siluncedo ixesha elide emva kweeprojekthi zokuqala kuba unokuqhubeka usongeza iisensa nekhowudi yakho kuso, kodwa nayiphi na ikhithi inokunikwa inyathelo elilandelayo ukuba unikeza inkqubela ibhokisi eyishiyayo. Indlela enamanqanaba iqala kwiibhloko zokuqala, idlule ekukopeni imizekelo, iye kwiiprojekthi ezizimeleyo, kwaye yiloo ndlela, ingabi ngamacandelo, egcina umntwana ehamba phambili.

Nika umntwana wakho injongo ayibiza ngokwenene njengeyakhe

Elona tshintsho likhulu unokulenza kukutshintshanisa "ukugqiba ikhithi" ngenjongo ekhethwe ngumntwana wakho. Into enomntu okanye injongo ebotshelelwe kuyo: isibane sasebusuku somninawa, i-alam yomswakama yesityalo seklasi, ibhodi yamanqaku enesandi somdlalo wamakhadi asele ewuthanda.

Ubunini benza into ubutsha obungenakuyenza. Buthwala umntwana kwiphakathi elidikayo leprojekthi, kuloo nxalenye apho into ingasebenziyo kwaye incwadi yemiyalelo ingenampendulo. Umsebenzi wakho utshintsha usuka ekunikezeleni iphepha lomsebenzi elilandelayo uye ekubuzeni umbuzo omnye: ufuna ukwenza ntoni? Emva koko umnceda ayahlule ibe ngamacandelo amancinci ngokwaneleyo ukuze awagqibe.

Xuba ngokutsha, ungakhi kwakhona

Abantwana bavuka umdla ngokukhawuleza kakhulu ngokutshintsha into esele isebenza kunokuqala kwiphepha elingenanto. Thatha iprojekthi egqityiweyo uze utshintshe into enye. Yenza isibane sidanyaze ngokukhawuleza, yenza irobhothi ijike ngakwelinye icala, yenza i-alam idlale ingoma eyahlukileyo. Utshintsho oluncinci ngalunye lulingo oluncinci olunesiphumo esikhawulezayo, kwaye ziziphumo ezikhawulezayo ezigcina umfundi omncinci ehleli esitulweni.

Isilinganisi siyanceda apha kuba akukho kuxhuma kufuneka kwenziwe kwakhona kwaye akukho candelo lokulahleka ngasemva kwesofa. Umntwana wakho unokuzama utshintsho aze alubone lusebenza kwimizuzwana embalwa, aze agcine inguqulelo ayithandayo. Ungadlala ngekhowudi yeebhloko kwikhanvasi yokubhala ikhowudi esebhrawuzeni ngaphandle kwayo nayiphi na ihardware, eyindlela engenamngcipheko mkhulu yokwakha kwakhona ukuzithemba emva kokuba ikhithi ibande.

Yenza umsebenzi ube ngowabantu

Inkuthazo ikakhulu yeyabantu. Iprojekthi umntwana ebengasokuze ayigqibe eyedwa iyagqitywa xa kukho umntu oza kuyibona. Loo mntu unokuba ngumninawa, iklasi, iklabhu, okanye umboniso omncinci ekhaya ngoLwesihlanu.

Kulapha iklasi yeveki nganye izibonakalisa khona. Ukuhlala nabanye abantwana abaphakathi kweprojekthi luhlobo lwalo lwamandla, nto leyo eyinxalenye enkulu yesizathu sokuba amaqela amancinci abonanayo ubuso ngobuso adle ngokuhlala ixesha elide kunekhithi eyodwa ekhaya. Iiholide zesikolo zikaJulayi azikude, kwaye ukwakha okufutshane kweholide okunomda ocacileyo wokugqibela, umzekelo iiworkshop zethu zeeholide, kudla ngokwenza okungakumbi kumfundi omileyo kunenye ibhokisi. Umhla wokugqibela othambileyo nabaphulaphuli bokwenene, nokuba yidemo yeklasi okanye ukhuphiswano lokwakha lobuhlobo, koyisa phantse nasiphi na isakhono semveliso.

Umbuzo ongakhululekisiyo: bekungumdla kabani?

Ngamanye amaxesha impendulo enyanisekileyo kukuba ikhithi ibiliphupha lakho, ingelolwabo. Loo nto ifanele uhlale nayo, ungazisoli. Ukuba yonke ikhithi iyafa, mhlawumbi le ndlela ayimlungelanga nje lo mntwana okwangoku, okanye kukubekwa kwayo okungamlungelanga.

Umntwana ongazikhathalelanga iirobhothi ngenxa yazo nje unokuvuka kanye xa irobhothi ikhonza into asele eyikhathalele: ubugcisa, umculo, ezemidlalo, izilwanyana, umdlalo. Landela umdla wokwenene womntwana uze uvumele itekhnoloji ibe sisixhobo esimfikisa apho. Ukubeka ngolo hlobo kuhlangula iikhithi ezininzi ngaphezu kokuba ibhokisi enkulu, ekhazimla kakhulu iya kuze ikwenze.

Ozokuzama kule veki

• Buza umntwana wakho ukuba ufuna ukwenzela umntu ntoni, uze ubhale phantsi impendulo apho nobabini ninokuyibona khona.
• Khetha iprojekthi enye asele eyigqibile nize nitshintshe into enye kunye, ukuze nive nje uloyiso olukhawulezayo.
• Beka umhla omncinci wokugqibela nabaphulaphuli abanye, nokuba abo baphulaphuli ngutatomkhulu omnye kumnxeba wevidiyo.
• Yiya kwiskrini xa ihardware iyiyo ecaphukisayo, uze ubuyele kwihardware xa iskrini sivakala singenamdla.
• Ukuba iikhithi ezintathu zilandelelana zifile, yiyeke ngokupheleleyo injongo "yokugqiba iikhithi" uze ulandele umdla endaweni yoko.

Isishwankathelo

Iikhithi azisileli ngenxa yokuba umntwana wakho engakwazi ukugxila. Zisilela xa iiprojekthi ezakhelwe ngaphakathi ziphela kungabikho nto ithatha indawo yazo. Nika umntwana wakho injongo eyeyakhe, mvumele axube ngokutsha endaweni yokwakha kwakhona, beka abaphulaphuli bokwenene ekupheleni kwayo, uze unyaniseke ngokuba ngumdla kabani oqale yonke le nto. Yenza oko kwaye loo mntwana ulahle iibhokisi ezintathu unokuba ngoyena ungasokuze ayibeke phantsi eyesine.

Imibuzo eqhelekileyo

Ikhithi kufuneka ibambe umdla womntwana omncinci ixesha elingakanani?

Lindela ukuba ubutsha buphele kwiiveki ezimbalwa, kuba malunga nelo xesha iiprojekthi ezikhokelweyo zihlala lona. Into ebamba umntwana emva koko ayisiyo khithi ngokwayo koko yinjongo elandelayo oyakhayo ngeenxa zayo. Ukuba umdla uphela xa incwadana iphela, leyo yikhithi eyenza kanye into eyayiyilelwe yona.

Ndimele ndihlale nomntwana wam ngelixa esakha?

Yiba kufuphi kwaye ube nomdla, kodwa zibambe ungayenzeli inxalenye enzima. Injongo kukuba umntwana wakho abe ngumnini wombono nowomzabalazo kunye. Buza imibuzo, unceda ukwahlula umsebenzi omkhulu ube yimisebenzi emincinci, uze umvumele agcine uloyiso xa ekugqibeleni isebenza.

Kufanelekile na ukuzama iklasi endaweni yenye ikhithi?

Ngokufuthi ewe. Iklasi inikeza izinto ezimbini ikhithi esebhokisini engenakuzinika: inkqubela eqhubekayo emva kweeprojekthi zokuqala, nabanye abantwana ekwakhiwa kunye nabo. Ukuba awuqinisekanga, iseshoni enye yokuzama ikuxelela ngokukhawuleza ukuba umntwana wakho udikwa yindlela ngokwayo okanye udikwa kukwakha yedwa.